Tuesday, August 07, 2012

Financial Conflicts in Marriage


Financial problems in the family are a challenge for couples. First identify the cause so that you can discuss with a partner.

Undergo a marriage is not easy because of various problems often arise. During courtship, money is no problem. When entering the marriage, child education expenses, house rent and the bills become common problems.


Lack of attention

Argument that happened between you and your partner (husband/wife) is not really about money. This could be due to a lack of attention to the marriage. When couples feel neglected, they triggered buy things that are not able to be purchased or offending spouse spending habits as a way to discuss the issue further.


Blind love

Beginning of a relationship, money is not a major problem. The habit of indulging couples with things luxurious and fun can not be done again.  Upon entering the real world of marriage, all the financial problems become responsibility between husband and wife Enlist the help of financial advisors to help you solve financial problems.


Female breadwinner

In this modern era, it is reasonable women working for a living. Even though, it provides financial benefits for families but it was a challenge because she feels guilty, as they can not fully perform its role as a mother. Husband can be a sense of failure to provide properly for his family. Create a list of expenditures which balanced, so there is no sense of failure for your partner.


Green grass

Sometimes, the couple can be envied by the other spouse to spend money. This makes them jealous and wants to have another lifestyle that is not able to have. However, this can lead to debt and stress in marriage. Discuss this with your partner and find ways of eliminating these feelings.

Lack of communication

Discuss the details of your expenses each month with a partner (husband/wife). Create priorities and decide together if there are expenditures that must be reduced or even stopped.



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