Career
outside the home is no longer the monopoly of men. Women can do it. Just look
at office buildings, both private and government, can be assured of the
existence of women. Women are not just cheerleaders. There are among them held
important positions, even the leaders. There is a manager, director, politician
in the House, even cabinet ministers in the government.
Well,
if the women is also a wife and mother for their children, how they play the
dual role? Could they drink two at once successful, career and success in the
home? Although difficult, many women strive to achieve two successes.
In
the view of psychologists, it is difficult for a woman to run a multi-function
role - as a homemaker, wife, community members, as well as career women - at
the same time successfully.
A
maximum of all the roles that can be done in a balanced way, not all of them
may succeed. If the success criteria of a housewife is: devote more time to
care for children and families, take shuttle children, communicating with
teachers about the development of their children, to accompany the child to do
homework, and other matters related to the family, then the criteria will be
difficult for a woman's career. Therefore, career women, especially those
working in private companies and government agencies, did not have much time to
do these things.
Moreover,
if a woman's career was often out of town or overtime, would dwindle more time
to care for children and families. For the career woman, things could be done
most simply accompany the child to do homework, and took time to chat with the
teacher.
To
get around the limitations of time for family, some women's career over
emphasize the quality - not quantity - a meeting with the children and
families. According to psychologists, not just the quality of meeting the
children and families needs, but also quantity of the meeting.
Well,
here is a career woman prosecuted for their roles in the household and a career
in a balanced way. While the husband, should support and give a full
understanding of the work wife. They also can not be too demanding his rights
to his wife.
Suppose
there is a woman who successfully performs its function as a house wife and
career woman, according to psychology, she was practically a super woman.
Therefore, not all women have such strong energy.
Another
case when the occupation is elaborated is the kind of job that has flexible
working hours, not solid, and no deadline. For example, just like become the
author, owner of the shop, boutique manager, social worker, or other jobs that
can be done at home. They still have plenty of time to take care of and
attention to children and families. Thus, they can be successful in a
successful career at the same time taking care of the household.
Success
can also be achieved by women working in corporations or government agencies,
but with a specific strategy that is to wait for children independent only then
women can focus on a career. So, she began her career over 40 years when the
kids grow up.
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