Thursday, July 26, 2012

A successful career woman and a successful marriage


Career outside the home is no longer the monopoly of men. Women can do it. Just look at office buildings, both private and government, can be assured of the existence of women. Women are not just cheerleaders. There are among them held important positions, even the leaders. There is a manager, director, politician in the House, even cabinet ministers in the government.

Well, if the women is also a wife and mother for their children, how they play the dual role? Could they drink two at once successful, career and success in the home? Although difficult, many women strive to achieve two successes.

In the view of psychologists, it is difficult for a woman to run a multi-function role - as a homemaker, wife, community members, as well as career women - at the same time successfully.

A maximum of all the roles that can be done in a balanced way, not all of them may succeed. If the success criteria of a housewife is: devote more time to care for children and families, take shuttle children, communicating with teachers about the development of their children, to accompany the child to do homework, and other matters related to the family, then the criteria will be difficult for a woman's career. Therefore, career women, especially those working in private companies and government agencies, did not have much time to do these things.

Moreover, if a woman's career was often out of town or overtime, would dwindle more time to care for children and families. For the career woman, things could be done most simply accompany the child to do homework, and took time to chat with the teacher.

To get around the limitations of time for family, some women's career over emphasize the quality - not quantity - a meeting with the children and families. According to psychologists, not just the quality of meeting the children and families needs, but also quantity of the meeting.

Well, here is a career woman prosecuted for their roles in the household and a career in a balanced way. While the husband, should support and give a full understanding of the work wife. They also can not be too demanding his rights to his wife.

Suppose there is a woman who successfully performs its function as a house wife and career woman, according to psychology, she was practically a super woman. Therefore, not all women have such strong energy.

Another case when the occupation is elaborated is the kind of job that has flexible working hours, not solid, and no deadline. For example, just like become the author, owner of the shop, boutique manager, social worker, or other jobs that can be done at home. They still have plenty of time to take care of and attention to children and families. Thus, they can be successful in a successful career at the same time taking care of the household.

Success can also be achieved by women working in corporations or government agencies, but with a specific strategy that is to wait for children independent only then women can focus on a career. So, she began her career over 40 years when the kids grow up.





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